Smelling the Roses

Flowers

Having a wedding five weeks after your sister creates a few strategic problems. You must a wait a certain period of time after she has sent out save-the-dates and invitations before sending out your own. You have minimal time to help her plan unless you are comparing notes on who to use for what.   On the other hand, there are also perks.  You get to see who responds to her RSVPs to gain an idea of who will be coming to yours, you can compare costs, and you get to use some of her events as a trial. 

The latter comes into play with my bouquet. My mom threw Liz a bridal shower, where the favor was a little bundle of lavender roses (her wedding color).  My mom ordered the flowers in bulk, which left a large number of flowers after the guests departed that I could use to arrange a sample bouquet. I found several Youtube tutorials that demonstrated easy ways to create a rose bouquet.

I only used 10 roses on this one. For the bridesmaids, I’d probably use closer to 12 or maybe more depending on the size of the blooms. For mine, they recommend 18 and up.

I’m certain I can do these bouquets. I can’t justify spending $50 for each bridesmaid bouquet when I can make all seven bridesmaid bouquets and my bouquet own my own (with some help) for approximately $200.  My only strong preference is that I want real flowers, but other than that, I’m not too worried about the bouquets. I’ve never left a wedding thinking “Wow! Those were amazing bouquets!” I don’t expect anyone to leave my wedding with that thought. As long as we all have a bouquet that’s alive and looks decent, I’ll be happy.

Dressing the bridesmaids

Bridesmaid Dresses (a.k.a the bane of my wedding planning)

Picking out bridesmaid dresses was the worst. Really. It was much more stressful than picking out my dress, which only took me trying on eight dresses. 

I originally wanted a dark teal color for the dresses. After not finding a lot that I liked in that color, I switched to a light pink/blush color. I love the romantic feel of the color, and pictures I’ve seen with bridal parties in the color all look lovely. Still, even after picking out the color, I stressed over bridesmaid dresses longer than necessary.

I wanted all my girls to be able to pick out their own style of dress. I know that one person may be comfortable in a mini strapless while another may prefer a halter.  My hope was that everyone would like their dresses, and perhaps even wear them again. (I know this is what every bride says, but that doesn’t make it any less true.)  Another big factor was the price.  I wanted it to be around $150, so that my bridesmaids weren’t having to shell out an exorbitant amount of money to be part of my wedding.

Weddingtonway.com helped narrow my focus. They have a great website that allows the bride to pick dresses and invite the bridesmaid to individually rank their favorites. Even though I ended up not ordering the dresses from that site, it gave me an idea of what styles everyone liked.

Finally, on one fateful day, I visited Alfred Angelo bridal salon with two of my bridesmaids, Rebecca and Catherine.  The visit lifted a great weight off my shoulders.  With Rebecca and Catherine side by side, I was finally able to decide on a dress that everyone would wear.  After further consideration, we decided that everyone picking their own style may not work depending on what people picked and where they were standing, so we picked a style that we hoped would work out the best for most of the bridesmaids. 

I hope (and think) everyone will be comfortable in the dress.  It’s a flattering style on all.  Liz, my maid of honor, got to pick her own dress.  I wanted her to stand out as maid of honor (or by the time I get married, she’ll be matron of honor) and this seemed like the most simple way to achieve that. Liz decided on this dress.

Two of our flower girls, Grace and Julia, also decided on their flower girl dresses at Alfred Angelo. It’s always hard trying on dresses that don’t fit you, but I know they will look great!  Our third flower girl, Savannah, is wearing a hand-me-down dress that she will also be wearing to Liz’s wedding.  (Let’s hope she doesn’t get it too dirty.)   I’m glad that all my younger girls have their own unique dress.

I’m so happy bridesmaid dress shopping is over!

More DIY

More DIY Arts and Crafts

Candles

Although I’ve been going back and forth on what I wanted for our reception table centerpieces, one thing that has remained consistent is that I wanted to include candles .  So, with a little help from my bridesmaids Shailee and Catherine, I bought a bunch of votive candles and decorated them all.  Some have pearls, rhinestones, or lace trim. Some were personalized with the letter “C.” The “C” got progressively better the more I (or Shailee) made. Even though they aren’t perfect, I think these handmade touches will add something special to the wedding. Plus, I love how they dress up the table and make it feel romantic and elegant.

Card Box

I saw this card box on weddingbee.com and decided that I could make one.  Shailee came over with at least a dozen candidate boxes of various sizes and shapes in tow.

We built the card box out of a large wide one to serve as the base and smaller one to place on top.  The first step was attaching the big and little box.

Then we painted them with two coats of white paint.  In hindsight, spray painting probably would have been easier.

We used spray adhesive to cover it with lace. 

Finally, we decorated it with yellow ribbon and flowers. 

I’m proud of how it turned out.  I’m going to be a bit sad when we have to cut the bottom of the box to get the cards out.

Our New Home

My wedding blogs have been on hiatus for a while.  It turns out that buying a condo, moving into a condo, and planning a wedding takes up a lot of time, so I’ve really been slacking on writing about the wedding planning. So here’s a quick recap of what we have accomplished in the last 4 or so months…

 Our new home

The biggest development is that we bought a condo! We started looking around Labor Day weekend, shortly after we decided on a reception venue.  Our timeline for buying a condo was driven in large part by the possibility that Rob might get deployed in December.  Thankfully, that deployment thankfully never came to fruition. 

We started by searching for units in Park Central, the building in which Rob was renting a unit.  We liked the location, the staff, the amenities, and basically everything about the place.   We were looking for a two-bedroom unit, and unfortunately, the few two- bedroom unit that were listed for sale did not suit us for one reason or another.

 Once we decided to venture outside the building, we got an awesome realtor (thanks Atlantaben.com) who basically showed up every two-bedroom, two-bathroom unit in the area.   It seemed like we visited every condo building in midtown.

 Although we seriously considered making offers on a couple of units in other buildings, we couldn’t quite find one that suited us..  We kept coming back to how much we liked Park Central.  For example, some buildings felt too stuffy.  Others had a staff that was less friendly than the staff at Park Central.  Others had no guest parking, which would have limited our ability to have family and friends visit.  Others had terrible situations for handicap parking, such as tandem assigned parking spots with handicap spots on a first come, first serve basis for residents.  We cam close to deciding to continue renting the one bedroom/one bath for another year while we waited for the a more suitable unit to become available.

 Luckily, this didn’t happen! Late in the process, a few units became available in Park Central that were more suited to our tastes.  After losing one unit for which we made an offer, we finally closed on our new home.  It is a two bedroom/ two bathroom unit with two assigned parking spots.  I was able to make arrangements to switch my parking space to a handicap spot with enough room for my ramp.  We plan to upgrade the kitchen after the wedding with new appliances and cabinets with pull-out drawers.  Also, we plan on making the bathroom more accessible.  There is still work to be done, but it’s livable and cozy. Best of all, it’s OURS.